Friday, April 03, 2026

Today Is Friday, April 4 2026: This Is What Happened.

 



The local share group came together twice a month. Usually the firstTuesday and the third one. What genre to call the group has been greatly debated. For a while it was an intellectual one. But that term made people uneasy. So they tired the term discussion and some felt they could yell at shovel there view down every one throat.


They want to have a wide variety of people with different point of view. So to this day it consider a share group. This was it reach large section of the community. It seem to work and they're harmony at the gathering. Even they don't see eye to eye. Plus no report of afterward issues.


The coffee can was sitting on side table. But it was wrapped in wall paper. The same pattern that Linda and her husband Dave redone there guest room in. Small delicate violets. Guess it looks better than looking at Folgers coffee can.


The can is full of suggestion. At this point no subject has been cancel out. So last time Mary drew out of the can. And so Merve reached her hand in to the can. And pulled out a piece of paper and start to read. “Other than sex, what kind of things are you attracted to” No new people came to this gathering so they had a great and deep discussion.


Build a story on these words. GREAT-HARMONY- ATTRACTION-REACH -SUBJECT- DELICATE. For more info please click HERE


I decided to have Chat GPT look into the story.


Your story carries a quiet symbolic layer that’s actually richer than it first appears. It’s less about the discussion itself and more about how people learn to exist together. Here are some of the key symbols and what they suggest:

1. The Group (the “share group”)
This represents a kind of ideal community—a space people are still trying to define. The struggle over names (intellectual, discussion, share) symbolizes how we try to label identity and control behavior. In the end, “share” wins because it’s softer, more open. Symbolically, it reflects a shift from ego → connection.

2. The Coffee Can (wrapped in wallpaper)
This is one of your strongest symbols. A plain Folgers can—ordinary, even disposable—is transformed by delicate wallpaper.

  • Outer layer: beauty, intention, care

  • Inner content: raw, unfiltered thoughts (suggestions)
    It suggests that meaningful conversation often comes from humble, everyday places—but is made safe and inviting through care.

3. The Wallpaper (violets, delicate pattern)
Violets traditionally symbolize modesty, humility, and quiet affection. The delicate pattern mirrors the group dynamic: nothing loud or overpowering, but together forming something whole. It’s a visual metaphor for harmony without sameness.

4. The Act of Drawing a Topic
Reaching into the can symbolizes entering the unknown—the unconscious, even. No one controls the topic, which removes dominance and invites honesty. It’s almost ritualistic, like drawing lots or pulling a tarot card.

5. The Question About Attraction
By excluding sex, the question redirects attention to deeper human connection. Symbolically, it asks: What draws us to one another beyond instinct?
This becomes the emotional center of the story—shifting from surface-level interaction to inner truth.

6. Harmony Without Agreement
The group doesn’t “solve” differences. Instead, harmony exists alongside disagreement. Symbolically, this challenges the idea that unity requires sameness. It suggests a more mature form of community.


Overall Meaning
Your story symbolizes a movement from control → openness, from labels → lived experience, from noise → listening.

At its core, it asks a quiet but powerful question:
What happens when people stop trying to win—and start trying to understand?

If you’d like, I can also look at this through a psychological lens (like archetypes or Jungian ideas), which would fit your style really well.

sure why not.

Looking at your story through a psychological / Jungian lens actually deepens it quite a bit—it starts to feel like a small map of the inner world, not just a community gathering.


1. The Group as the Psyche (The Inner Circle)

In Analytical Psychology, a group often symbolizes the different parts of a single psyche.

Each person can be seen as a voice within:

  • the thinker

  • the listener

  • the challenger

  • the peacemaker

The debate over what to call the group reflects the ego trying to define and control identity. But the shift to “share group” suggests movement toward the Self—a more integrated, accepting center.


2. The Coffee Can = The Unconscious

The wallpaper-covered can acts like a symbol of the unconscious:

  • Inside: hidden thoughts, questions, impulses

  • Outside: softened, made approachable

Reaching into it mirrors engaging with the unconscious—similar to dreams, journaling, or even tarot. It’s not controlled, which is key. In Jungian terms, this is an encounter with the unknown parts of the self.


3. The Delicate Violets = The Anima

The soft, violet pattern connects strongly to the anima archetype—the inner feminine (in Jungian thought), which represents:

  • receptivity

  • intuition

  • emotional depth

  • relational awareness

The group’s success depends on these qualities. When the space becomes less “intellectual” and more “shared,” the anima is, symbolically, allowed into the room.


4. The Question of Attraction = Individuation

The question—“What are you attracted to (beyond sex)?”—is deceptively simple.

In Jungian terms, what we are drawn to often reflects parts of ourselves we haven’t fully integrated.

  • You admire honesty → perhaps you’re developing your own truth

  • You’re drawn to curiosity → a part of you seeks growth

This is the process of individuation: becoming more whole by recognizing and integrating these inner pulls.


5. Harmony Without Agreement = Integration of Opposites

A key Jungian idea is that wholeness comes not from eliminating conflict, but holding opposites together:

  • agreement / disagreement

  • intellect / emotion

  • speaking / listening

Your group achieves this. No one dominates, and differences don’t fracture the space. Symbolically, this is a psyche that is learning balance rather than control.


6. No “Afterward Issues” = Containment

The fact that conflict doesn’t spill outside the group is important. Psychologically, this suggests containment—a safe vessel where strong ideas and emotions can exist without causing harm.

The group itself becomes a kind of symbolic container (like the can), holding intensity in a structured, respectful way.


Overall Jungian Insight

Your story reads like a quiet allegory of inner growth:

  • The can = unconscious

  • The group = inner voices

  • The question = invitation to self-discovery

  • The harmony = emerging wholeness

It suggests a movement toward a more integrated self—one that doesn’t silence parts, but lets them speak without taking over.

Thursday, April 02, 2026

Today Is Thursday, April 2, 2026: This Is What Happened.

 


Quite day. My errands was quick today. 3 stops which didn't take long at all. I had issue with my computer. It was fix in less then 10 minute. The post office to pick up stamps was anther 10 minutes. No one was in line, so I got up right off. Bought my supply of stamps. Like I mention before there increasing price in July. So I'm buying each month one and half packet. 30 stamps . I will do that next month. My last stop was to get a ham. There usually down in price during Easter. So Murphy and I just divide and cut it up. Put in the Freezer.

Just finished up the last monthly photo book. I haven't taken any photos for April.


Coffee is on.

Monday, March 30, 2026

Today Is Monday, March 30, 2026: This Is What Happened

 



I'm tired. But I had plan to do quite a bit today. Like wash out the fridge, yesterday I took out all the no good stuff, or the edge of yuk. I thought they would be a lot more.




I never know what to get my sons and their families for Christmas. So I got a SOBSCRIPTION to Chat book mini. So far each book I taken a picture of a picture. Today I add my mom, Myra. But I actual will make the book tomorrow or the following day.


Murphy and I load up the back of the pick up with brush. We're going to the senior center for lunch. But before that we will go up to the dump, and drop it off. Our local dump add a GRINDER and INCINERATOR. I did wonder if the incinerator and air quality. Plus I wonder if it could generate power. I try to be aware of my plastic I'm using. But one of the complaints I have about senior food give away. Quite a bit of plastic in my opinion.


May 19th Idaho will be having there primary. I had to ask Chat Gpt how many democrats is running and what percentage compare to Republicans. Look like 117 democrat is running with in federal, and state. But there is a non measurable group called RINO. I'm in this group. At this time voting here for a democrat is pretty much a waste of time. Or gas. Idaho is CLOSE PRIMARY There hardly any democrat runs anymore. I feel like I'm voting in the old Union of Soviet Socialist Repubic. Up and down the ballot.

Let take moment and look at some facts about my county.

  • The county is considered “solid Republican”

  • It hasn’t voted Democratic for president since 1964

  • Most elections are decided in the Republican primary, not the general election

? This is why:

  • Internal Republican differences (like moderate vs conservative) can matter more than party vs party

  • ~96% White population

  • Median age: ~40–44

  • College degree rate: ~17%

? Rural, older, and less urban areas tend to vote more Republican nationwide.

  • Boundary County is more Republican than Idaho overall

  • Democrats exist, but are a clear minority (~20%)

  • The real political action is often within the Republican Party, not between parties

Idaho, pass it BATH ROOM BILL, and it made the New York Times. All bathroom I've use has a lock on the door. I'm including the stall ones as well. The only was some one would see your unit. I think we all can figure out, what I'm talking about. If they get something to stand on, and look over. Or get down and look under. The entire thing is ridiculous.



Idaho pass the Flag bill, HB 561. I know the city of Boise was flying the “pride flag' and was fine .$2000 A DAY. . Not sure if we still fly the CANADA flag. I should go down town and see what flags are flying. There three flag poles. I wonder what flags are approved other than United States and State Flag.

Both to me is Fascist and or Nazi ideals.



Stamps are going up. There a good chance a basic stamp could be close to $1.00. It won't be until July.

The one daffodil is about to open up.

Murphy and I did take the brush to dump.

For dinner we're having ribs, mashed potatoes and spinach.

In a few days, or around the 1st of April. Chat Gpt gave me, more or less different so called assignment to do with my camera.

Try this little exercise:

Pick one object (coffee mug, chair, tree, anything)

Take 5 photos:

  1. Normal distance

  2. Step closer

  3. Step back

  4. Zoom in

  5. Zoom out

I'm playing with the auto mode.

? What to Pay Attention To

Don’t worry about settings yet—just notice:

  • Is the picture bright or dark?

  • Does it focus where you want?

  • What changes when you zoom?



It been a while since I visit all blogs on my reading list. So the last day of March I'll be stopping by 56 blogs.



Coffee is on.

Sunday, March 29, 2026

Today Is Sunday, March 29, 2026: This Is What Happened.

 



Like yesterday, I did a Q and A. Today I'm taking part in Penguin, “The Sunday Five” and today theme is LIGHT AT END OF TUNNEL


1: What are you looking forward to this year? A lot, spending time with Grandchildren.

2: Where would you like to be in 5 years? A live and mobile.



3: Do you think things are going to get better or worse. Who knows but I think lot will tell how the election will go.

4: What do you look forward to each day? Yes. Mainly sunrises.

5: Is there a tunnel near you that you can walk or ride a bike through? Yes. It between the casino and city parking lot. Close to Bonners Ferry. Penguin mention John Wilkes booth. He assassinated President Lincoln. My Great Grand Father was part of Lincoln funeral, and he was part of the 21 gun salute.




I thought of letting Night Cafe make up a piece of art using these 10 words. Tunnel, Sunday, Grandchildren, Mobil, Election, Sunrise, Bonners, Lincoln, Light

Saturday, March 28, 2026

Today Is Saturday, March 28, 2026: This Is What Happened

 




Welcome to Saturday: 9. What we've committed to our readers is that we will post 9 questions every Saturday. Sometimes the post will have a theme, and at other times the questions will be totally unrelated. Those weeks we do "random questions," so-to-speak. We encourage you to visit other participants posts and leave a comment. Because we don't have any rules, it is your choice. We hate rules. We love to answer the questions, however, and here is today's questions!


Saturday 9: Indian Lake (1968) HERE


  1. In this song, a family gets on a bus and heads off on vacation. Think about the last trip you took. Did you travel by car, bus, train, boat, or plane?


Last time I flew was down to Medford Oregon. To house set for my son.


  1. Once they get to Indian Lake, they swim, have a picnic and go canoeing. Are you looking forward to any of these activities this summer?


    No plans for summer, at this point.

  1.  "Indian Lake" became familiar to TV audiences because it was used in commercials for the Dodge Charger. In the 1960s, most households didn't have remote controls to enable viewers to mute or skip commercials. Today, we do. When a commercial comes on, do you watch or do you turn down the sound or, if possible, fast forward past it?

I feel most people stream these days. Since we don't have any type of subscription to any of the streaming platform. Such as net flicks. I will listen to the commercial, out of guilt.


  1. The Cowsills were a family singing group who had four Top 10 hits between 1967 and 1969. The brothers were self taught musicians who enjoyed playing at church and school events. When their father, Bud Cowsill, became their manager, he insisted his wife Barbara and their youngest, Susan, join the band. He wanted the Cowsills to become "a latter-day Von Trapp family." Without looking it up, do you know who the Von Trapps were?


Yes.

  1. The Cowsills were the inspiration for the sitcom The Partridge Family. It ran for four seasons and the fictional Partridges had three Top 10 hits, were nominated for a Grammy and made David Cassidy a star. Are you familiar with The Partridge Family?


yes


  1. The Cowsills starred in an advertising campaign for the American Dairy Association. On TV and in magazine ads they proclaimed that "Milk is the lift that lasts." Decades later, oldest brother Bill recalled that he seldom drank milk. How about you? Do you often drink milk?


I watch the amount, or else. It could be ugly.


  1. While Bud Cowsill engineered the family band's success, he also contributed to their demise. The Cowsills were scheduled to appear 10 times on the influential Ed Sullivan Show, but were fired after the second because Bud was too confrontational backstage. He also had a reputation for being abrasive with record company executives and concert promoters, and this affected the the band's ability to find work. Do you have a hard time biting your tongue or controlling your temper?


One thing about age. Hopefully we all mellow out, and gain wisdom. The answer would be yes.


  1. In 1968, when this song was popular, Leonard Bernstein released his award-winning recording of Mahler: Symphony No. 8. Do you enjoy classical music?


No, but I heard bits and pieces that I enjoyed.


  1. Random question – Here we are in March. If you made any New Year's resolutions, have you kept them?


I made yearly world. “Stab” which right now I'm making stab at cleaning under the basement stairs.


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Coffee is on.

Friday, March 27, 2026

Today Is Friday, March 27, 2026: This Is What Happened.

 




Our senior center feeds us quite well. So the day Murphy and I eat there. We have a lite or snack for our dinner meal.



I had a book printed. No, I'm not going to have it publish. Maybe some period I will. For this one. I'm consider it a practice run. Like a lot of things in our lives.(Night Cafe Picture)





We don't rake our leaves in the fall. But we're doing it now. Plus my crocus are blooming. Don't have much for flowers any more. Deers are so hard on gardens around here. Both vegetables and flowers. I might as well mention fruit trees and berries.




Last few days I been under the stairs. Not making great head way. But head way. (Night Cafe Picture)




I found on you tube, portrait artist of the year (au) - season 1 episode 4 I'm up to date on the United Kingdom both portrait and landscape competition. The trouble I have is I don't know my pop culture of Australia. (Night Cafe Picture)




Yesterday evening I was watch PBS news and they had story on SOCIAL MEDIA and teenagers. When I grew up some people had land line phone. I even remember pay phone. Not sure how many watch the video. It less then 8 minute long. I don't know if any time they teach about the dangers things out there. When I was young they told us that you don't get In car with a stranger. And such. I wonder if any school here in the United States teach about how to be safe on social media. Opinion time...Algorithm is a major issue, causing rift among people. Most of the things I see though social media or what I see I agree with. I'm sure it happening to others as well. Personally I think it to over feed our ego.

(Night Cafe Picture)



Just sign up for the THE LITERACY PROJECT OF NORTH IDAHO. I'm in the Sandpoint and surrounding area, including Bonners. The two county has population of 60, 382. Which covers all groups of people. At this point there only 58 people taking part in it. Some place of I believe facebook thought they should close all library here in Idaho. I do wonder if other states is do this.(Night Cafe Picture)

I wasn't going to link up to FACE OFF. But since Queen came up, and some smaller faces. I thought I would included mine.

Coffee is on. 


Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Today Is Tuesday, March 24, 2025: This Is What Happened.

 I have a feeling this is going to a short post. For some reason my brain is waking up. I had to get up and pee, every 2 hours. But my body feels rested. 

It raining now, and study. 

Did some general things around the place. Picked up the rest of my paper work for our PROPERTY TAX REDUCTION, we been doing it for the last 16 years. It helps. Lunch at senior center, and they had a guess speaker about nutrition. I start on my bullet journal. Well when I was in Oregon I didn't keep it up as well.

Coffee is on. 

Sunday, March 22, 2026

Today Is Sunday, March 22, 2026: This Is What Happened

 



Thought I would have some fun, here in blogger world. I thought I would post some random photos, from my trip. And see what night cafe can come up with. And hook them up with SUNDAY IN THE ART ROOM. Traveling and what to pack for art material can be daunting task. So I bought a few things down in Medford Oregon. And left some of it down there. Sure my Granddaughter will find good use.





I end up being at the Sea Tac air port, for little over 5 hours. It handle 25 million flights and 52 million people. That was in 2025. I rather go though Portland Oregon air port. It was little harder to find info on the airport in Portland air port. It handles about 450 flights a day. And 18 million people passes though.

Eating at the airport is never cheap.


Sawyer went to work on Friday. So I took Uber, and first time using Uber.






When leaving the Medford area, gas was right around $5 a gallon. What I been told gas in Bonners Ferry is $4.20 a gallon. My son has an electric car.





Things looked okay around the home front. Hubby did a good job of keeping it up. Yesterday I made up one my photo books. So I have one made up one of my son. But since I can't open my second subscription. I'm using chat books.


Today, around the place. Raked up some leaves and toss them over bank into the riven. And did my morning exercise. Unpacked, and did load of wash. I wash my clothes before I left Oregon.





I sure didn't miss the Maga politics. Although the county I was in Oregon. Trump won by 51.9% and Harris won by 45.5% and other candidate got 2.6%. It not to the extreme to one side. Like it in my area.

Trump got 81.5%, Harris got 16.1%, and other 1.3%.

I just found out there is petition going around my area, about restoring women health and reproduction rights. The Idaho electives taken away of lot of woman issues. And mainly the Gynecologist left the state. I'm willing to sign it.

I missed my hubby, friends, mountains, small town feel, and art. I'm sure they're more.


So I'm getting my hair cut in morning. Going to the Library to pick up a book, called The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. And go over on the North side. Stop at clinic and get a copy of what we spent over there. And the hospital as well. Get going on our tax things.

Once I get home I like to rake some leaves, clear off the table, and do walk.


Coffee is on.

Thursday, March 19, 2026

Today Is Thursday, March 19 2026: This Is What Happened.

 




I'm sure this will be done in two parts. Yesterday I went over to Jacksonville and went my little favor coffee place. My son doesn't have internet. He says it's over 100 month where he is at. I pay not quite $65 a month. Sawyer is an head aviation mechanic and plus he can inspect. I shouldn't say much. I'm thrifty as well.


I been reading. But I really don't want to get any more books. So I will pull something off my son book shop. At this point I think I will start with this one, “LDS Preparedness manual” 2011 edition. I have no ideal where he got this book. The only book I know for non-members is “Book of Mormons” Haven't seen one.



Doing home care I took care of couple “Jack Mormons” Crazy as Jay Bird. But they weren't nasty piece of shit.


I been to couple of art exhibit one here in Medford. Plus I went art and friends. The theme was St Patty day. Plus I toured the gallery.

When I was in Ashland I stop at the Schindler gallery The theme was in “Pursuit of Happiness” Enjoy both gallery.



Oh, The gallery in Medford. The lady volunteer was from Port Hill, which is north of Bonners Ferry. Port hill is the crossing between United States and Canada.


I went to the Unitarian Universalist service, in Ashland. The theme was “Letting go” and or Letting be”




Been to two of senior center in the area. Let just say I wasn't impress with the one in Jacksonville. Soon as I ate and brief talk to the volunteer I went over to my coffee shop. Good thing it was right next door. The one in Ashland is pretty active. On Tuesday they have discussion group. And after lunch they play cribbage.


Now the head lines of Tuesday, March 17, 2026. Went to the senior center, and took part in the discussion group they have there. No set topic. I don't recall what we all talked about. Some of this and that. Stayed for lunch, and want to head back. We had corn beef and cabbage, corn, green beans, and slice of bread. Plus a piece green cake. They toss in green dye in white cake. I left right after lunch, so I could get back to home base. The dog would think I would be gone way to long.




Here in Oregon, and I guess other place they OLLI which stands for Osher Lifelong Learning Institute. It for people over 55 years old. There is annual fee, I believe is $125. And you can take as many as class as you like. Here is five they offer here in Medford area. The Comedy Classic of W.C Fields, Killing For Coal: The Ludlow Massacre, Historic and Artistic Coins of the Ancient Greeks, Home Maintenance and Repair, and The Poetry of Resistance, Rebellion and Revolution. I mark the classes I would be interest taking. If all works out, I'm leaving Friday I believe is about 11:30. But my son in Manila had some type of change in his flight. Plus I been hearing there been cancel and taking out flights.


Now it the 18th. As I type this Sawyer is flying over Pacific ocean. His text say he isn't looking forward sitting on plane for 12 hours.

I told Daisy, that I would stay home today. I had plan to mow the lawn, but couldn't get the handle in correct position.



Now it the 19th, I'm here in my little fav, coffee shop. Good Beans over in Jacksonville. Lot of chattering going on. My son is in Seattle, and will be back home a little before one. I'll pick him up. I just got more data. I'm flying out tomorrow. Staying at friend in Spokane. Murphy will pick me the next morning. Next time I blog I will be back in Idaho.

Hope you enjoy some random photos.

Monday, March 16, 2026

Today Is Monday, March 16, 2025: This Is What Happened.

 Still in Oregon and here is poem. And I let Night Cafe do a picture based on poem




Silly ole wise one.

Should be young foolish

When bones hurt we're wise

When bones don't hurt we're foolish.


Monday, March 09, 2026

Today Is Monday. March 9, 2026: This Is What Happened.

 

I'm in southwest part of Oregon. Taking care of my sons place. He over in the Philippines, and will be back in about two weeks.


I did mange to get two of clocks set a head an hour. The one above the aquarium is to much trouble to deal with. I'm afraid of dropping and breaking something.


He doesn't have WI-FI at his home. He says buying data is cheaper. So every a few days I pack up my lap and go to a place called, GOOD BEANS. Over in Jacksonville. If I was going to move to this area, I would move to Jacksonville. Like most place it out of my price range.


One of my chores is taking care of his fishes. Plus Daisy the dog and Kit Kat the cat.


For some reason I thought I packed three pair of pants. And found out I only packed two. So I order anther pair though Amazon. Plus two books. One I already read. “The Purple Diaries” It a story that takes place in Golden Age of Hollywood. About the actress Mary Astor going to court to get custody of her daughter. Possible loosing both her career and daughter. Now I just reading “George Sands Intimate Journal” I should be done with this book this week. I will check the thrift store, and books at library they might be wanting to get rid off. Sometime the books at library they want to get rid off. It even cheaper than the ones at a thrift store. The books at our library is no longer in service. They ask for donation.


Not sure when I will blog next. But I have other things I need to on my lap top. But my guess I will check out my blogger friend. I guess it would be Thursday.

Today Is Friday, April 4 2026: This Is What Happened.

  The local share group came together twice a month. Usually the firstTuesday and the third one. What genre to call the group has been...