Went up and help Qunella pack up her things, for she can move. I'm not up there all the time. But she says she got rid of lot things. In all honestly I just didn't see it. As I was packing her things. I kept thinking. Once she passes her son Murphy will have plenty to go though.
My friend Liz told me, when her mom passes. Her dad went first. They pulled up horse trailer and started to load up items. And they went to dessert industries. And my friend Nancy was telling me that some her family members was taking things that the state and Medicaid own. Like a hospital bed. So police had to be called in.
As I was driving back home. I start to wonder how much my sons will have to go though.
Tom, of BACK ROADS TRAVELLER, made this comment in my last post...And we live in a red section of a blue state.
Generally I'm please how the election went. Idaho did gain some blue seats for Boise.
So far the GLP 1 shots are doing it thing, I guess. The only issue I had this morning I woke up nauseated. But soon as I got little in my stomach I was fine.
The surname I'm going to share, is Bickford. One of my 5th great grandmother was a Bickford. I don't that much about this line.
Bickford is an English place-name surname. The standard reference (Dictionary of American Family Names, via Geneanet) says it comes from one of three places: Beckford Farm in Membury, Devon; Bickford Town in Plympton St Mary, Devon; or Bickford in Staffordshire. The Old English parts are a personal name, Bicca (or Becca for the Membury farm), plus ford, a river crossing. So it means “Bicca’s ford.” One site gave “bee cottage ford,” and another derived it from “beak” or “peak,” but those look like guesses, and I’d trust the personal-name explanation.
Where it’s found
The name is most common in Devon and Cornwall. That’s the same southwestern corner of England as your Trefry ancestors from Fowey, so a Bickford in your tree could come from the same region.
I will only share two well known Bickford. An actor name CHARLES BICKFORD, not the acting family Pickfords.
ANDREW BICKFORD, who was in the Royal Navy, he was an Admiral. Strangely I never heard of any of these two people.
I'm letting Chat gpt pick three bible verse, that goes with today post...I chose three Bible verses that reflect the three main threads running through today's posting: caring for others, thinking about what we leave behind for our children, and exploring family history.
1. Galatians 6:2 — Sharing one another's burdens
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
Why I picked it: You went to help Qunella pack her belongings, even though you aren't there all the time. Helping someone through a move can be physical work, but it can also bring up difficult thoughts about aging, possessions, and what happens when someone dies. This verse speaks to the kindness involved in simply showing up and helping.
2. Proverbs 13:22 — What we leave behind
“A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children…”
Why I picked it: While packing Qunella's things, your thoughts turned toward Murphy and what he might have to deal with after she passes. Then you began wondering what your own sons might have to go through someday. This verse brings up the idea of inheritance, but inheritance doesn't have to mean money or property. It can include family stories, photographs, journals, memories, and the decisions we make now to make things easier for those who come after us.
3. Psalm 78:4 — Passing family history along
“We will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, his power, and the wonders he has done.”
Why I picked it: Your Bickford research fits this verse in a broader sense. You are looking backward through generations, trying to discover where your ancestors came from and what their lives might have been like. Even when you don't know much about a family line, writing down what you discover helps preserve a piece of history for the next generation.
A thought connecting all three
Today's posting moves between the past, present, and future. You helped someone in the present, thought about the responsibilities that families face in the future, and explored a surname from the distant past.
There is a common thread: What we do with our lives and what we leave behind become part of someone else's story.
Your Bickford research may uncover only a few names and places, but your journals preserve something larger: the thoughts, questions, experiences, and everyday life of the person doing the research.


















