All The Fuss

My friend Alice threw her daughter Nicole a baby shower. Her baby is due around Saint Patrick day and it’s going to be a boy.
I have to say something “People over reacts to babies” I love my boys and enjoyed all the stages. I may not be a big fan of early teens and mid teens.
As Nicole was opening all of her wonderful things for her baby, some of the guests were going “Oh how darling” maybe I just don’t get the fuss.
Yes I do coo over babies and now I look at my boys who are well on their way out into the world.
I remember some of the hardships were brought to us, and the joys of raising two boys.

Murphy may have plenty of faults but we always provide us with a home, which was never fancy.
I didn’t every worried about going hungry may not ate fancy foods. Most of the time had to shop by the sale ads.
I’ve never doubt his love for his family.

I guess I was wondering what kind of environment this new one, will be brought up in. After thinking about what I was thinking on.
I better take a good look at us how we did our own boys.
When our boys were little we had to pump our water by hand, from a well. Let me tell you it is the best tasting water and we weren’t on the grid.
Lived in what I call a one-bed room construction trailer with an add on. Heated the place by wood.
Plus we used an out house.

I hear that we all marry some traits of our parents. Alice all most ex husband or Nicole dad is what I would call a person who real never truly supports the family. He basic worked enough to buy a bag of smoke.
I don’t if he choice not to support his family or just didn’t get it.
I’ll see Nicole husband end the grocer store and he buying a 6 pack of beer. To the best of my knowledge he isn’t employed or drawing unemployment.
Maybe he picked up a day job and earns a little bit of cash for his beer money and saw no other food with it.
You see Mariam, Nicole dad is basically the same.

I hope I’m wrong about Henry being some what like his father in law. I don’t doubt Henry loves Nicole and does love his family.

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