It been two ruffly two weeks ago and I went and talk to my doctor about zoloft and she suggested that I write a letter to my inlaws. Honest time...I don't think it real going to do much good. But I thought it was worth a try and I don't know how much time I'm going to be putting in this. So The 4th of May I send Earl and Tadita this letter.
Wish...I wish some way or somehow things gets patch up
My doctor suggested that I write you a heart filled letter. I hope this letter will be the start on mending the fence that became between our families.
There 3 thing bothered me on this whole thing.
Why did you snob us since Ulanda and Frank came to Bonners Ferry? I only can come up with two reason.
1. You bad mouth us so bad to Ulanda and you couldn’t have any contact with us. In simple term you poison the well.
2. For some reason Ulanda doesn’t want you to have anything to do with us. Should I say Ulanda has you under her thumb.
I don’t know if these is the real reason. Until I hear differently I will believe the two above. If you want to explain the reason why you snob us when Ulanda and Frank came, please be honest and if you needed to make up a lie. Don’t bother flab your gums.
Personal I think, one of your reason you gave why you didn’t come over is, lack of sugar for the coffee. Is pretty lame.
This been going on for sometime Murphy and I are willing to bury the hatch. I don’t see the reason to holding a grudge.
Personal I could hold a grudge against you.
It would be a terrible thing to hold this grudge and take it to the grave. No one lives for every.
I like to ask a simple request could I please have the tapes of me that you taken with you hided camera. I feel you personal took advantage of my privacy.
It not nice to have double standards.
I like to pointed out before I close this letter. We never real had any major problems with Earl and Tadita until Ulanda came.
I don’t except you to hate.
I don’t expect anyone to be prefect. This is gone on long enough and Murphy to best of my knowledge call twice to bury the hatch and I think the fence mending is well over do. How long do you want to hold a grudge?
Peppylady, I'm sorry you are having a rough time with your in-laws, and just keep your chin up.
ReplyDeleteWhen you are sad, think of the people who DO love you - your husband and kids. Think about this all the time, like a prayer.
Thank you bonita. I find this whole thing sad with my husband brother family.
ReplyDeleteDid you send this letter?
ReplyDeleteOne thing I've learned: you can pick your friends but not your family. And apparently, you've learned this too! My in laws also suck ass. I could certainly live without seeing them ever again, but I know it would hurt Wolf not to see his mother.
Nio, Yes I send them the letter. No response and I real don't expect any back. I might send anther letter I feel for my hubby but I'm going to wait untill around the 19 th of June.
ReplyDeleteMaybe once my husband brother mother inlaw is out of the picture.
We never had any promblem with Murphy brother family until his mother in law showed up in the picture.
I don't wish her ill it
Murphy brother Earl lives by a double standard. He acts like he so sweet and nice.
Heck I even thought of writing Dr Phil.
Their shit don't stink but when they fart it stinks more then most.