Things was chaotic here. But I'm gaining ground.
Not sure if I should discuss hubby health issue or Children relationship. Let go with Children relationship. Because C comes before H.
As I mention that Sawyer and Betty is divorced. There no factor to what I'm going to say. It's how I feel. Their playing tic for tac. Or I also call it. Cause and effect....The trouble the marbles can really run out of control. One will do something and then the other one will do something, and so forth. With me as possible bullet in chamber. Or the big hall. The other thought it would play in favor of one or the other.
Every event, has three sides. Your side, my side, and the truth. I asked each one why they got divorced. Well Sawyer and Betty said in there own version why. I'm positive with no question things was left out. For a while I asked both what the marriage counselor said, two different version.
I figure it best for me not to go down for a while. If I go in August, it will be for a shorter time. Statement time...It irritates me when a person refuse to look on the other point of view of anything.
Murphy asthma was acting up. He took him self to the Emergency room. They give him treatment with a nebulizer. And gave him some steroid and antibiotic. He had a hard time maintaining. He even had issue with his balance.
I'm gain ground. Chaos does take a break. I'm thankful if chaos doesn't run 24 hours day, or three hundred sixty five days a year,
I did enjoy time with my granddaughters. Maud spend the night at a friend. Wendy, her dad and I went to some type of jungle gym thing. We also did fireworks, and I did go to the Unitarian service over in Ashland.
THE WORLD IS NOT SOMETHING TO LOOK AT, IT IS SOMETHING TO BE IN.
Coffee is on.
...a divorce and asthma are things that no one wants to deal with!
ReplyDeleteGoodness, so many things at one time is never fun but I"m glad you are gaining ground.
ReplyDeleteOh dear divorce is never easy.
ReplyDeleteHope Murphy's asthma stay under control.
Pleased that you are gaining ground.
All the best Jan
I have been divorced since 1998 and have never remarried. Divorce is never easy. I will be 70 in October.
ReplyDeleteI hope Murphy's asthma gets better.
This is why I am okay with my boring life...everyday is same and I am content with it. Hope Murphy feels better soon.
ReplyDeleteIt sucks to get caught in the middle of drama. Good to stay out of it if you can. But your grand daughters...
ReplyDeleteSorry about the divorce drama and the health issues. I hope things settle down
ReplyDeleteI have never had asthma myself, but I have seen other people suffer. Murphy was very smart going to Casualty. They give him treatment with a nebulizer, steroids and antibiotics, and hopefully that will do the trick!
ReplyDeleteNever a dull moment right?
ReplyDeleteI had a friend whose daughter divorced. She had a terrible time with it. She said no one ever thinks when an adult child divorces how hard it could be on a parent who has grown to love the spouse, who now they won't even see anymore. I have one brother that can't tolerate being in the valley in spring and summer due to the severity of allergens here, mainly grass seed pollen, then the dust when they plow up the fields after harvest. That's when I have trouble, with the clouds of dust from plowing after harvest.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter has asthma so I know it can be scary. I hope Murphy is feeling better. It's sad when the two parents can't get along even though they are no longer together, for the kids.
ReplyDeleteI was divorced in 1976. I remarried in 1981. It's not easy but I did not get in the way of the paternal family seeing my son. I really like the mother. I had asthma most of my life. When I was in my 40's I didn't need treatment anymore. I guess it happens.
ReplyDeleteWhen people let go of the hurt, and see how they might be hurting others, they can focus on what they have in common.
ReplyDelete