Not
sure how I'm going to handle the up coming eating. Saturday Murphy
and I are meeting Paul and Gloria at PANHANDLE PIES parking lot. Then
we're going to drive up to HILLS RESORT I'm
taking the camera with.
Then
Carrie ask me if I want to go an barbecue put on by Cross Road
Community chapel. Never been but I met the minister there and he has
to work and usual he is slinging an hammer.
Minister
who church offerings doesn't cover all the expense usual has an
understanding of us humans. Money usual make people snooty, actual
those who want to put on air of wealth and don't have pot to piss in
or a window to toss it out. Let me tell you something there farts do give them self away.
But
not all that worried about the service.
Confession...Eating
out two days in roll got me worried.
Breakfast
scrambled eggs, apple, and one slice of sourdough toast with butter.
Lunch
which is still difficult for me. Pork and beans with one wiener. I
guess one can say I had two lunches which included salami sandwich
with cheese and clintro.
Dinner
salad with balsamic dressing brown rice, and baby back ribs.
As
for snacks 2 Oreo cookies and 2 piece of dark chocolate with ginger.
Have every told you I'm an ginger fan.
Did
manage to get walk in twice end of the road and five power line
poles.
Now
life. As having no sibling I never felt family need to watch each
other back. In my own thinking right is right and wrong is wrong but
rules are met to be bent but not broken.
Depending
on the situation if either one of my son got in jail there a good
chance I would let them sit there.
One
reason we ask Murphette to move on. We was hoping and thinking that
either her daughter Annie or Edna would take her in. But it looks
like no such luck.
Murphy
told me to give her a call and let her plug in which would give her
chance to shower.
Her
other daughter Doris wants her to give power of attorney to her.
There nothing wrong with Murphette mind but she always don't make
good choices.
Her
and I raise our children different. She was her children friend. I
was my children parents, not there friend.
Pasty
came up from Logan Utah area. The main reason she came up is to help
Regis but also they might have been a small reason she left Utah.
I
understand that she has an sister who is more mental ill then her.
Talking to her she can't stand her sister.
There
mom thought she should stick around and take care of her sister and I
believe she has no desire to.
I'm
seeing more and more family have no desire to take there family in.
Question time...are we always obligated to take a family member in or help them out, doesn't matter situation
Ah. This is a tricky one. Every person, every family, is different.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Francene, circumstances are always different and what is right for one may not be right for another. I think you have to do what you can and mustn't feel bad/guilty for what you can't
ReplyDeleteYou just can't be a disciplinarian AND a best friend. I agree with how you raised your children.
ReplyDeleteTough question. Last year, a cousin whom I had had a lot of contact with years ago, but not in the last 10 years or so, called. She was having a rough patch emotionally and I listened sympathetically. She asked me if she called at 4am, if I would answer the phone. I told her "no" and it wasn't out of harshness but because I had other family issues I was dealing with and needed my strength (and sleep) for them. She never called me again. I think you can only do what you can. Alana ramblinwitham.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteonce the kids grow up, our obligation ends and their obligation begins.
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